Day 4: You and Your Ex Are One

Day 4: You and Your Ex Are One

The Principle of Divine Oneness states that everything is connected to everything else. Because we are individual centers of the Universal Mind, we are all connected to a greater consciousness called the Universal Mind.

The principle of being connected with one another through one mind is called the Principle of Divine Oneness.

You can always see the principle of Divine Oneness in action in your daily life.

For example, have you ever thought of a friend and that person suddenly sent you a text or even called you? Well, that’s because you and your friend share ONE MIND (Universal Mind)!

This means that whatever you think in relation to your friend, they also think of the same thing… and at the same exact time!

I apply this principle to my life all the time, especially when I want someone to contact me. I would think about them contacting me then I will receive a text message or my phone will just ring and it’s them!

I also apply this in business. If I want the client to pay the invoice, I just imagine them paying the invoice. And I am always amazed at the speed of their response!

The Principle of Divine Oneness reminds all of us that we are all connected to one another. No exceptions.

You and I are connected. It’s not a coincidence that you found my website! Your thoughts pointed you to my website!

You are connected to the most powerful people in the world, as well as to the millions who struggle to make ends meet.

You are connected to your loved ones, friends, co-workers, schoolmates, acquaintances, and even strangers.

You are connected to your pets, that’s why when you think and feel love for your pet, they also respond with the same love and care for you.

You are one with the plants, that’s why when you take care and talk to your plants, they bloom and give you beautiful flowers. This is their way of responding to your love.

You Are One With Your Ex

Because we are all connected to one another through the Universal Mind, you should have ZERO DOUBT about your connection with your ex.

This means that you belong to each other, never separated and that you are always connected through your minds.

It is important to understand this so that you know that you always have access to your ex. You can send them a message through your mind at any time.

The Principle of Divine Oneness suggests that when you think about your ex, they also think about you at that precise moment.

When you feel love for them right now, they will also feel that same love that you feel. If you are angry at them, they will also feel your anger. When you decide to forgive them, they will just feel and know that you have forgiven them.

If you recall and re-live the happy moments with them in your mind, they will also think of the same exact moments.

If you visualize touching them now, they will feel the tingling sensation of your touch at the same time.

If you visualize them texting you right now, they will actually think of texting you right now!

If you visualize receiving an email from them right now, they will also think about sending you an email.

If you focus on the negative parts of your relationship, they will also think of those negative moments in your relationship.

If you want your ex to continue loving you, love them unconditionally in your heart and mind.

But how will you know who influenced whom?

It’s actually easy to know: whoever has the higher degree of awareness has influence over the other. The more you can control and direct your thoughts and emotions, the more you can influence everyone and everything around you, including your ex.

So stop asking why your ex left you. Stop asking for reasons or explanations on their part because it doesn’t matter anymore. The answer is not in them, but in you — your mind and your heart.


Your Daily Practice: Every Morning and Night

Through the entire duration of this FREE COURSE, I prepared this visualization for you to practice morning and night.

You can create your own version but make sure the important elements are still intact.

As soon as you wake up in the morning or before you sleep at night, you need to set a time and place for Conscious Creation.

Before you start the session, make sure you are in a quiet place alone. I usually do my Conscious Creation session in my bedroom while sitting on my chair. I recommend that you sit on a chair so you can focus on your mental images without dozing off.


Step 1: Get into the Alpha State

Unless you can mentally focus on one thing and one thing only without your mind chatter getting in the way, it is important for your body and mind to reach the Alpha state or what others call the “sleepy state”.

My favorite technique to get into Alpha is to sit still with my eyes closed and then empty my mind. If this is challenging, I suggest that you count from 100 to 1 or do some breathing exercises until you feel fully relaxed.

You’ll know that you have reached the “alpha state of mind” when you feel totally relaxed and have no care in the world.


Step 2: Imagine Your Loved One Happy

The next step is to do your Conscious Creation in the Mental Plane using your thoughts and feelings. Do not use words or exert any physical efforts in the Physical Plane. All creations must be done in the Mental Plane only.

In your mind’s eye, invite your partner to come into your presence. If you are in a room, imagine them in the same room as you.

Imagine them happy, just happy on their own. Not with you, not with anyone else. Don’t add any person to the scene.

Don’t add other scenarios. Just focus on the person you love being alone and see them happy on their own.

See their bright smile and hear their contagious laughter. Feel their happiness radiate around the room.

Don’t see them happy with anyone else. Don’t see them happy with you. In fact, don’t see yourself with them for now.

Just see them happy alone. Imagine them in their happiest moment.

You don’t need to know the reason for their happiness. You don’t need to know what motivates them to be happy.

Just focus on them being happy.

Imagine this scenario as vividly as you can.

If you find it hard to visualize your loved one happy, look at a photo of them smiling. Remember every detail of their facial expression. Then see them with that same facial expression in the room.


Step 3: Mind the Distance

Make sure that you don’t see your loved one from afar that it would be impossible for you to recognize their face. When you see them far away from you, your subconscious blocks them from being with you.

The correct distance is close enough so you can easily touch or dance with your loved one. Their facial expression and the details of their face must be clear for you to see so that when you stretch your hand, you can easily reach them.

Look at them happy and smiling from your vantage point. Feel their presence and high vibrations. Their happiness is infectious and you can’t help but smile or laugh with them.


Step 4: Watch a Movie With Your Loved One

The next step is to invite your loved one to sit down and watch a movie with you.

Imagine as if they were beside you right now, as if this were happening in real life right now.

Make sure that you don’t see yourself as you watch a movie with your loved one unless you look at yourself in the mirror.

Imagine being comfortable beside each other. Imagine feeling grateful and happy being together.

Imagine yourselves in the living room of your own house. Imagine yourselves living together and enjoying each other’s company. Imagine it real as possible.


Step 5: See Yourselves in the Movie

As you watch a movie with your loved one, see yourselves in the movie.

See yourselves live your ideal life as a couple. See scenes from your travels, your engagement, your wedding day, family get together, lunch dates with friends, and if you wish to have a family of your own, see movie clips from your child’s first birthday.

Imagine as if you have chronicled your lives together through the years. See the photos and watch the videos of your wonderful life together!


Step 6: Be Grateful For Your Wonderful Life

Tell your partner that you’re happy to live your life together and that you’re happy to share memories together.

Tell your partner that you can’t wait to create more memories together.

Then watch their facial expression.

Imagine your loved one happy as well.

See them happy and content with their life with you.

Feel them happy with you now.

Then, seal the moment with a kiss.

Log your visualizations here to track your progress:




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