Manifest Your Ex Back: Free Course
You Created this Experience
In the previous lessons, we established through the Universal Law of Mentalism that all is mind and that mind creates everything. We also talked about the Universal Mind that is the source of all; that you, me, and everything else are part of.
Since you create everything through the mind, it follows that your mind, which is a center of the Universal Mind, created everything that happened to you, including your relationships and all your life’s circumstances. Even as you speak and go about your daily life, your mind creates! If your mind creates, then why do you always wait for things to happen to you instead of proactively creating what you want?
In your journey to manifest your loved one back, it is essential to ask: are you waiting for things to happen to you or are you creating everything that happens and what you want to happen to you?
When you worry about this whole break-up thing, your loved one talking to other people, and you thinking that your reconciliation depends on your loved one, you ARE creating them right now, at this moment. Everything that you perceive, imagine, always think of, plus the powerful emotions that you feel are all creating your reality. You are just unconscious of the fact that you created it.
You placed all the molecules that make up your universe and our universe. You conceived everything through your consciousness. You created everything that happened to you.
Everything that you “see” and experience are your manifestations. Recognize that this is the truth. Recognize that you created all this. You even manifested finding my website and taking this course. You looked for answers, and you found them.
When you recognize and accept that you created and manifested everything in your life, you will set yourself free. You will no longer blame anything else outside of you. You will cease to blame the weather, events, people, or the environment. You are not limited by what you see, hear, feel, smell, and taste. Instead, learn to control the weather, event, people, and environment into manifesting your desired reality. You are free to make this the best kind of life for you.
I’m sure you’ve heard this a hundred times already, but I would like you to take a moment to recognize and accept this as the truth: things don’t just happen to you; you create what happens to you. You have decided for this moment to come — you were just unconscious about it.
Knowing this now, you can go back to being the CREATOR of everything that happens to you, because whether you believe in it or not, whether you are unconscious of this ability or not, you create your reality anyway.
You create all the time. I would like to ask you to take a step back from the mindset that you are waiting for things to happen to you. No one gives you these experiences but you. Instead, be more conscious and be more aware of the fact that you create ALL THE TIME. In this way, you will have total control of your life. Once you have complete control of how things will unfold in your life, getting everything that you want — including manifesting your loved one back — will be a magnificent journey.
How to Turn Things Around
Because all come from the mind, this means that if you want to change your reality, you must change what is in your mind!
Yes, your breakup is no exception. Since your breakup is the result of your past thoughts, you can undo it by changing your thoughts about your loved one and your current reality!
It doesn’t matter how bad the relationship was, what had transpired between the two of you, or how intense the breakup was. You can turn things around by simply changing your thoughts about your loved one and your relationship with them.
Some people find it hard to believe that this is possible. Yes, this is possible. The FREE version of this course has so many success stories to prove that this is possible.
It is only impossible if you think it’s impossible; but since you have the ability to think whatever you want to create in your mind, nothing is impossible! You are only limited by your imagination!
If you can imagine that you’re already back with your partner, that scenario will find its way to your Physical Reality through repetition as long as you fully believe in it.
Do not concern yourself with how this will manifest in your reality. It doesn’t matter whether your partner has already said, “I’m done!” a million times. It also doesn’t matter whether they live across the globe. It also doesn’t matter how complicated your situation is.
Do not worry about the process of how the two of you will reunite. That’s not your problem to solve.
The universe contains infinite possibilities and infinite resources to execute the most complex of all your desires. Your only job is to focus on your ultimate goal, and everything will be arranged for you in the most magnificent way.
Instead of focusing on the breakup, create in your mind the idea that you are back with your loved one, and that you are already in a brand new relationship with them.
Keep repeating the same thoughts in your mind. Imagine that you are already back with your loved one and “feel” as if you are already reunited with them.
There is nothing that exists around you that didn’t come from your thoughts. All creations come from your mind. Your reality is the result of your mind.
Before you decided to be in a relationship, you must have thought about it first. You must have formed a mental image of your ideal partner so that when you meet someone new, you know exactly whether or not they are your type.
Even the tallest building in the world, which is Burj Khalifa in Dubai, started as someone’s idea before it was developed into a plan and then given to the architect, developer, engineers, and contractors. Even Facebook and Apple came from Mark Zuckerberg and Steve Job’s minds!
Before you acquired all the material things in your life, you must have thought about them first.
All desires and dreams come from the mind. Nothing gets created without the mind. All the developments in the world come from the mind.
Your mind is the source of all intelligence. It is also the source of all social, physical, mental, spiritual, scientific, artistic, and mechanical achievements and advancements.
The thing is, whether you think consciously or unconsciously, and no matter how fleeting these thoughts, they will always find their way to your Physical Reality.
In fact, your thoughts are not going anywhere else except your Physical Reality. If they are not manifesting right now, they HAVE to manifest later.
The manifestation mainly depends on your predominant thoughts. As long as the majority of your thoughts are positive, they will manifest as positive experiences in your life.
Literal Translation of Thoughts
One important thing that you need to understand about the Law of Mentalism is that whatever you think and believe LITERALLY translates into your Physical Reality.
There are so many instances where I pictured out a detailed scenario in my head and it manifested exactly as I had imagined it to be. This happened so many times. Some people call these “deja vu,” but actually, these are the literal translation of our visualizations and subconscious thoughts.
To take advantage of the Law of Mentalism, you MUST create the specifics of your desire in your mind to get the results that you really want. their powers to reunite with your loved one.
The Law of Cause and Effect
The next Universal Law for manifesting your loved one is the Law of Cause and Effect, which is an immutable law, so you cannot transcend or change it. It will always take effect in full force 24/7.
According to this law, nothing happens by chance. This law states that “chance” is a term that indicates an effect of a cause that the creator hasn’t recognized or hasn’t perceived yet. In other words, you think something happens to you by chance when, in actuality, you created that chance yourself — you just didn’t know or didn’t realize that you created it.
The Law of Cause and Effect has been recognized by almost all religions and almost all thinkers in the world, including those who believe in chance or “coincidences”. In truth though, there is no such thing as “pure chance” because to have chance means this law is not absolute, which is contrary to its immutable nature.
Nothing happens by itself without any causes. Everything that manifests in the Physical Plane got created in the Mental Plane first. Everything that happens to you, including the people you meet, is your own doing. You don’t always recognize that you created it, but you are the cause of ALL things that happen to you.
We also have to consider that ALL IS MIND, and that the Universe is MIND. And the universe’s manner of creation is through the mind. So, if we believe in chance, that means we created it outside of “THE ALL” or the Universal Mind. So, the question is, how could you create something outside of the mind when everything is MIND?
Assuming you can create chance without a cause, that will break the order and the continuity of the universe. It will also cause chaos and lawlessness in the world. The Law of Cause and Effect leaves no room in the universe for something outside and independent of it, so that’s why there’s no such thing as chance.
You finding my website is not a chance. It was you who created the cause. You were seeking for answers, and the answers appeared through my site. Your “desire” to find answers to your questions (cause) resulted in you reading my lessons (effect).
I used to believe in chance. I liked the idea of “chance encounters”; but because I wasn’t consciously aware of my own “intentions” (cause), these chance encounters didn’t last.
These days, whenever I meet someone interesting, I always ask myself, “What is it IN ME that attracted this person?” I am always looking for the cause that I created. Although the cause isn’t always recognizable, I will eventually get to the A-HA moment and realize that I created the “idea of that person” in my mind.
How to Deal with Signs
Nothing ever “happens” without a cause or rather a chain of causes. If you’ve been looking for “signs” of your creation or if you’ve been analyzing all the social media posts, actions, reactions, text messages, or calls of your loved one, that means you have no confidence in your ability to “create” your desired outcome. You have no confidence in the “cause”. That, or you haven’t been conscious of your “cause”.
For those who are obsessed with signs, I recommend that you give up looking for them. I read a lot of posts on different forums and articles that say, “Oh I see my partner’s name everywhere!” or “I see 1111 or 2222 today!”
Yes, these are some of the “signs” that your Physical Reality is changing and moving towards the direction of your desire, but the more you dwell on the signs, the more you will just create signs and not your actual desire.
Some of you might reason that signs are a way for you to know that your creation is working, and it is a way to monitor your progress. But the fact that you have to look for signs means you are not fully confident in your ability to create your desired outcome. You are basically operating on the level of doubt or fear that your desire might not come, which are not high vibrations at all.
Instead of getting assurance from the signs, there should already be a sense of knowing (faith) that your desire will manifest in your Physical Reality sooner rather than later. You already know it will come, so you just relax, smile, and enjoy the ride!
But this doesn’t mean you have to ignore the signs. When you see them, send love to the signs and to everyone and everything around you. Be grateful in your heart that your Physical Reality is changing. What I am saying is give up LOOKING for them.
Chain of Events
The Law of Cause and Effect doesn’t only refer to one cause for every effect. Each effect is the result of an “event” that precedes it, and what precedes it is the effect of an “event” that precedes it. So the Law of Cause and Effect follows a chain of causes that continues to have a chain of effects.
The same thing happened to me when I had the desire to go to the United States in 2005. I eventually met someone who helped me with the process, and I had to wait three years for my petition to be approved. I came to the United States in 2008 and became a permanent resident. After five years, I became a U.S. citizen in 2013. I also ended up living in the in San Francisco — the city that I had in mind in 2005. All these happened exactly as I had imagined and more: I originally just wanted to go to the U.S., I didn’t know I’d end up a U.S. citizen eight years later!
It is also the same as wanting to have $1 million. Do not expect $1 million to appear in front of you the next day. What will happen usually is that you will either have the urge to buy a lottery ticket and win $1 million or you’ll think of a $1-million business idea or meet a business mentor who can teach you how to build a business that generates millions!
Let’s think of a stone that is dislodged from a mountainside and crashes through a roof of a cottage in the valley below. At first sight, we think this as a chance effect, but when we examine the event closely, we find a great chain of causes behind it.
In the first place there was the rain that softened the earth that supported the stonel; then there was the influence of the sun, rains, and weather that gradually disintegrated the piece of rock from a larger piece; and so on. Then we might follow up the causes of the rain over the rock. Then we might consider the existence of the roof.
Just as a man has two parents, and four grandparents, and eight great-grandparents, and sixteen great-great-grandparents, and so on until forty generations are calculated and the numbers of ancestors run into many millions — it is the same with the number of causes behind one event.
How to Apply the Law of Cause and Effect to Get Your Loved One Back
If we apply this to getting your partner back, perhaps the first event that will lead to your manifestation is maybe your partner un-blocking you on social media, and then reaching out to you, and then inviting you out for coffee, then apologizing for everything that happened, then being friends with you, then being in a romantic relationship with you again, and then being in a long-term and committed relationship with you.
But then, some of you “disturb” these chain of events because of your impatience. Some of you get upset when your loved one just wants to be friends with you for now. You are quick to conclude that you’re being “friend-zoned”. The more you think of being friends as the ultimate effect, the more it will become your permanent status with your loved one and it will only distract you from focusing on your end goal. What happens is if you keep focusing on being “friend-zoned”, you will ALWAYS be “friend-zoned”.
I am not saying that your manifestation WILL happen this way. What I am saying is it CAN happen this way.
Some manifestations are faster and more direct, like you’ll be surprised that your loved one will call you out of nowhere and beg you to reconsider. The speed of your manifestations depends on how focused and disciplined you are and how committed you are to your desire.
As you see, it can be the “series of events” that can lead you to your desired outcome. You will probably meet people along the way who can help show you the way to your desire. You may also find yourself in a situation that will lead to another situation until it leads to your desired outcome. Conscious Creation is indeed an amazing process, what you need to do is relax and enjoy the journey!
One of my favorite quotes is from Paulo Coelho, author of The Alchemist. He said, “And when you want something, all the universe will conspire to give you what you want.”
I loved it, but for the longest time, I didn’t understand the real meaning of this quote. I thought the universe is a space where I belong to that likes to throw random things at people. I was always amazed by all the “meaningful coincidences” and how the universe just knew my desires.
Now, I understand better: it’s not the universe that conspired to bring me what I want. It’s me, myself, and I that created all this, through my own consciousness!
Another important thing to discuss here is your FREEDOM to think on your own. You have been influenced, preconditioned, brainwashed, and swayed by the opinions and thoughts of the outside world. You may also be easily swayed by your emotions that many of you cannot apply these ideas without your Conscious Mind doubting and questioning their effectiveness. If you allow your Conscious Mind to take over, what happens is that you acquire NO MASTERY of yourself, and NO WILLPOWER to transcend your own situation.
I encourage you to not just “go with the flow”, so to speak. If you really want to manifest your loved one back, CONSCIOUSLY DIRECT the ebb and flow of the tide. In other words, deliberately create the cause that will bring you to your desire.
Do not be moved by the pawns on the checkerboard of life. Play your parts and get laid aside when the game is over. Be the grand master who knows the rules of the game, rise above your opponents, dominate your own moods, never allow yourself to be distracted, apply the techniques that you learned, strategize, and win!
In other words, always use your WILLPOWER to direct your thoughts so that you can create the right causes for your desired effects. Always rise above everything that you see around you. Rise above anything that you don’t like in your situation right now. Know that as you as you change your cause, you will also change your effect.
Worse, you two may see each other again, but it won’t blossom into a beautiful rekindled relationship. And it’s all because you tied negative feelings and thoughts to your ideal scenario.
The phrase “hoping for the best, but expecting the worst” is not applicable in Conscious Creation. Your hopes and expectations should both be aligned with your desires. All of them must be empowered by your belief that IT WILL 100% HAPPEN.
This won’t just apply to your ideal reunion scenario. Let your imagination run free with how great your rekindled relationship will be, all the happy (and even cheesy!) moments you two will have, the great places and conversations, and all other imaginal acts you want to see come true.
Activity for Day 15
Take 100% Responsibility for What Happened to You
This is a journal exercise. You need your journal and a pen to complete this exercise.
Now that you’ve learned how powerful thinking or feeling is, it’s time to reflect on your relationship with your loved one. You’ve learned throughout the course that your thoughts turn into reality, and this is what happened in your relationship.
There are no accidents. There is no luck. The reason it never worked out was solely and only because YOU made it happen. You had thoughts and feelings that caused the end of your relationship. All the fights, misunderstanding, unmet expectations, even jealousy! They exist because you made them happen with your thoughts. If you feel bad and guilty about it now, here’s the good news: If you ended it, you could surely get it back.
This exercise is focused on you taking 100% responsibility for what happened in your relationship and for everything else in your life. This is not to make you blame yourself for the series of unfortunate events, but to make you realize that you had the power all this time to create your own reality.
You will recall and reflect on all the CAUSES that you made that brought this unwanted EFFECT into your relationship. All your thoughts, feelings, and actions are causes that have specific effects.
Now, take out your journal and assign three pages for this exercise. One page is for THOUGHTS, one page is for FEELINGS, and one page is for ACTIONS.
First Part: Thoughts
Now, reflect on your predominant thoughts during your relationship that resulted in your current situation. Be honest with yourself and really assess your dominant thoughts when you were together with your partner.
Did you think your loved one could’ve been a better person? Did you think they were insufficient or undeserving of you? Did they meet your expectations?
Did you often imagine them flirting with other people whenever they hang out with friends? Did you wish they had a different religion, family background, or personality? Did you wish they had a better job or earn more than you do?
Did you think they were not “the one” for you? Did you think you were not right for each other?
What kind of thoughts did you usually have about them and about your relationship?
The goal is for you to identify the causes of your break up. Your awareness of the causes will make you more mindful of the present thoughts about your loved one.
Past Two: Feelings
The next part is remembering the predominant feelings you had throughout the relationship. Feelings are always the result of your thoughts. Negative feelings come from negative thoughts; positive feelings come from positive thoughts.
Based on your predominant thoughts about your loved one, what kind of predominant emotions did you have during your relationship?
Did your thoughts about them make you feel insecure? Did you fully trust them? Did you have a need to be reassured and validated? Were you paranoid about what they might do behind your back? Did you feel inadequate for them? Did you feel underappreciated, unloved, or unsupported?
List down these dominant emotions under Feelings.
Feelings (or vibrational frequencies) are what give substance to your thoughts. Negative thoughts, when given substance by negative feelings, can propel someone to perform a negative action in the Physical Plane.
Part 3: Actions
Thoughts plus feelings result in the physical manifestation of this thought-feeling combination.
Based on your predominant thoughts and predominant feelings about your loved one, what specific actions did you take in the Physical Plane because of these?
Did you tell them that you were unhappy in your relationship? Did you constantly check their social media accounts to see if they were talking to someone else? Did you constantly text or call them during the day? Did you accuse them of not being faithful? Did you ask them to find a better job? Did you compel them to do things that they didn’t want to do? Did you always argue about the smallest things? Did you blame them for your breakup?
List down all the actions that you took (and continue to take) in the Physical Plane because of these predominant thoughts and feelings.
Part Four: Reflection
As you look back on this list, see how your negative thoughts and feelings translated into your negative actions. These actions, when taken in the Physical Plane, always have consequences.
When you create your negative causes in the Mental Plane, what happens is these causes will manifest as negative effects in the Physical Plane. When these negative effects are compounded by negative physical actions in the Physical Plane, what happens is you will create a series of undesirable experiences that seem hopeless and irreversible.
Realize that you had merely created into reality what you had been thinking and feeling throughout the relationship. Reflect and meditate on the fact that the break-up had been your own doing. It is the negative effect of all your negative causes.
Taking 100% RESPONSIBILITY for your effects is important. There is no one and nothing to blame. You manifest everything in your Physical Reality.
Close your eyes and take deep breaths as you slowly start to accept that you have created your situation now.
Now, as you take deep breaths, slowly accept that you can turn your situation around for the better. You have the power to create better and more desirable causes. Everything is within your control and power.
The causes of your desired effects will only come from you and not from your loved one. How your loved one will treat you and act towards you will be the effect of the causes that you will create in the Mental Plane. If you created the end, you could create a new and better beginning.
In addition to today’s exercise, you should also listen to your subliminal for at least twice a day, as well as to any of the guided visualizations I mentioned in the previous lessons.
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