Lesson 13: Your Breakup is the Projection of Your Thoughts
The next universal law that we will discuss is the Law of Correspondence. This law states that what is outside of you is a reflection of what is inside of you.
It is very easy to understand what is going on in your mind: just look at everything around you. What you see around you is the result of your own consciousness.
To know what your real thoughts are about money and wealth, look at how much money and savings you have right now.
If you want to know your thoughts about health, look at the overall state of your health and well-being.
To know your beliefs about relationships and love, look at the quality of your relationships.
The fact that you and your ex have broken up says a lot about the quality of your thoughts while you were still together. It also says a lot about the quality of your thoughts about them right now. If you notice, this law supports the Law of Mentalism.
Your Experiences Are a Reflection of Your Beliefs
Perhaps you were not aware of the poor quality of your thoughts because, as mentioned previously, these thoughts have been stored in your subconscious mind for many years. These thoughts became your false and limiting beliefs or FLBs.
The break-up and separation from your ex reflect your beliefs. Again, perhaps you believed that you are unworthy of true and lasting love. You need to examine where these FLBs are from.
As mentioned earlier, these beliefs may come from your experience of not receiving love from your parents when you were a child. Perhaps this belief came from your experience of having failed relationships in the past and you thought you were the reason your partners left you.
Your feeling of unworthiness keeps manifesting in your reality in the form of failed relationships.
And every time you affirm that your relationships failed because you are unworthy of love, it becomes a never-ending cycle on your part to get into relationships that don’t last.
The only way that you can break this never-ending cycle of failed relationships caused by the same destructive thought patterns is to consciously change the way you think and feel about love, relationships, and your desire to be back with your ex.
There is absolutely nothing to do outside of you because what you see outside of you are the reflections of your beliefs.
So, to change what you see around you, change your beliefs about your ex and your desire to be with your ex again. Your outside will not change unless you change your inside.
This is why early in this free course, I asked you to use two subconscious reprogramming techniques to clear and replace your FLBs. These techniques are listening to subliminal audio programs and visualization.
This universal law is just to remind you what your physical reality is a direct reflection of your beliefs and your predominant thoughts. Subliminals and visualizations will address this issue. In addition, you need to be conscious of your self-talk and the quality of your thoughts and words.
Make a conscious decision to cancel out unwanted thoughts and feelings. Say, “Cancel, cancel, cancel!” so you can easily redirect your mind.
I also recommend that you should be mindful of the things around you. Don’t be a walking zombie and walk mindlessly when you commute to work or go about your daily life. Be present at any given moment. Being mindful of your surroundings and being present will help you avoid negative thoughts.