To see someone struggle from an illness is difficult. We want the people dear to us to be happy and healthy all the time. Sometimes, we even wish to switch places with them and suffer the illness on their behalf, especially when the one suffering is a child.
More than anything, we want to help them feel better, nurse their wounds, and see them physically strong and happy again. I would like to let you know that you definitely can, and you don’t even have to be physically near that person that you want to help.
It also doesn’t matter if they live in another city or country. Distance is not a problem. What’s important is the intention to help and heal them, and your belief that it can be done.
Ignore the illness
To help heal your loved on, the first thing that you need to do is ignore their illness. This means that you should not even ask them about it, talk about the illness with other people, or mention it in a conversation. In fact, do not even think about it and pretend it doesn’t exist at all. It takes mental discipline to do this, but with practice, it can be done.
Imagine the healed
Next is to picture them in your mind in perfect and vibrant health and telling you how fabulous they are and how great they feel about themselves. Imagine them saying they are in their best health ever, and you’ve never seen them this happy before.
In your mind, make plans with them to do exciting things like going on a trip together, watching movies, going on a hike, or going shopping as if they didn’t have the illness in the first place.
If that person is confined in a hospital somewhere, think of them all packed and ready to go home. See the doctor signing the discharge slip and telling them the good news that they are now completely healed.
Feel positive for the person
In addition to seeing the person completely healed, you should also feel every bit of positive emotion that comes out of that Read more…